It always happens, girl meets boy and they date and fall in love, but sometimes, love is not always sunshine and roses!
If you have come across this article, then you most probably have had an argument with your boyfriend and want to know some great tips on how to apologize to your boyfriend. Girls, we have all been there before, in most relationships, there are always going to be arguments. However, just how serious the argument is will depend on what caused the breakup in the first place.
But regardless of the reason that you broke up, all women would feel the same. That hollow feeling in your stomach that you and your boyfriend are apart due to a fight.
If you are the one at fault then you need to pick your time to apologize and choose how to apologize if you want him back.
I will now give you five tips that can help to sweeten the apology to your boyfriend. These tactics will help you reunite with your boyfriend.
- Be sincere and genuine about your apology. If you are the one at fault and you can see that you are at fault, then I suggest that you apologize wholeheartedly. There is no point in a half apology. If you are apologizing for the sake of apologizing and to get him back, then this is no good. This will only cause you problems down the track because you might harbor some bitterness at the breakdown of the relationship and if you apologize even though you are not wrong, then you may feel bitterness later. So I recommend that you only apologize if you are in the wrong.
- If you are not the person that is at fault and you did not cause the argument, then for you to be with your boyfriend again then you have to give your whole heart to him and forgive him completely. If you cannot forgive him, then there is probably no point in pursuing him again. This is because you will have ill feelings towards your boyfriend after some time because you haven’t forgiven him completely.
- Try and see his side of the situation. When you put yourself in his shoes, then you can see why he said things and did things that caused the argument in the first place. Try to understand why he is angry and then this will enable you to be able to apologize to him in such a manner that he will accept your apology.
- Choose a good time and place to apologize. If you have had a very heated argument, then I would not advise that you try to apologize straight after as he may still be angry with you. Let him have some time to blow off some steam, and then find a quiet and private location to apologize. You don’t want to apologize in a busy coffee shop for example as you won’t be able to talk privately.
- Give him a gesture or present. I find that the best gesture that works well is simple card. You can choose a pattern or headline of the card such as “I’m sorry”. This card technique will work well because inside the card, you can write down everything that you are feeling. Maybe you can write how much you love him and why you love him and what attracted him to you in the first place. You don’t have to spend big and buy expensive presents. Along with the card, you can pick some simple flowers from your garden. I am sure that if you do this, then you will sweeten the apology much more nicely.
So these are my 5 tips on how to apologize to your boyfriend. If you do the above, you will have a greater chance of him accepting your apology. Just remember to be sincere and honest with him and explain why you were angry with him in the first place. However, don’t lose your cool and start another argument.
I hope that these points that I have given you on how to apologize to your boyfriend will help you. But please remember that even after you do all of the above, you may not be able to salvage the relationship. I certainly hope that you will be able to get back with your boyfriend but depending on the situation, it might not be possible in all cases. This is when you need to move on with grace and find love elsewhere.
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