Once I had a worst dating experience, I’d met a girl online – she was good looking and interesting, and we had good conversations. One day I asked her me out, when we met, indeed she looked better than she looked in her profile pictures. She was really smart, funny and had a great personality also. We were passing wonderful moments. Midway through date, her cell phone started beeping. It was her x-husband. They had separated very recently, but she very much thought about their relationship and she was still living in their house.
Doubtlessly you have a terrible dating story (or many stories) of your own. Even after that terrible dating experience, I was being too fastidious. Unless my friends and family told me to relaxed my standard, I’d never get married. Ultimately, I decided that was ridiculous. If I was looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with, why wouldn’t I be choosy as possible?
So I began analyzing the profiles of popular online daters and attitude on dating sites. What I discovered surprised me, to say the least. It also led me to my wife. Best tips for online dating based on my experience…….
Make a desired list;
Develop a strategy before you start. What, exactly, are you looking for? Create a list based on your wish. Rather than saying “someone who wants kids”. Say that you want one or two kids, about three or four years apart. Part of making your list is defining what you want.
Once you have thought of all the traits you want in a mate, priorities them. Think about the characteristics in the context of previous relationships, your friends and family. Develop a scoring system. Allocate points to top 10 and fewer points to a second set of 10-20 characteristics. Decide the lowest number of your point you’ll accept in order to go out on a date with someone.
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Keep your profile short
Long profiles typically didn’t fare well in my experiment. I think that for thoughtful women, or women who are quit smart. Popular profile were shorter and intriguing.
Don’t try to be funny
Most people aren’t funny at all. What you say to your friends at the pub after a few pints may get a lot of laughs, but that doesn’t necessarily mean it’ll translate on a dating site. Here’s a good tip; after you have written your profile, read it aloud to yourself.
Use optimistic language
In my experience, I found that certain words (fun, happy) made profiles more popular. Talk about what excites you, or paint a picture of a really great day that you would want to be a part of.